Finger Job Part B

By Amy Allen

Amy Allen is back in the second part of her two part series on giving the perfect finger job to your partner. Have her screaming in ecstasy!

Let her be your guide- The best way to learn and satisfy your partner is to study how she masturbates. By copying this you will find out exactly what turns her on. To do this I suggest you play a little game. Blindfold your girlfriend when she is ready to settle down. Then, making sure that your hands aren't cold place them on hers. Let her hands guide yours all over her body, letting her show you where and how she likes to be touched. Then gradually start to finger her. 

Use her groans and gasps as a guide to what she likes.  Let her know that you are there to please her, if she wants more pressure, let her press your hands harder, if she wants you to move on, let her show you.  Don't let her tell you, let your fingers and her hands do it all. 

TIPS:

Most women when masturbating hold a special position that they personally find comfortable.  Take note of your partners, and then mimic it- it's the best position to take if you want to be successful.

Don't go straight to the target.  Try building her up.  Remember women need longer to build up then men do.  Reflect this in your actions, take time to massage her, or play with her pubic hair.  After all you don't want to make her feel rushed!

Knowing the Clit

Take the head of your penis and imagine something even more sensitive.  A woman's clitoris is also more responsive.  It's because of the number of nerve endings. 

This means that you must be extremely careful and gentle when playing with your partners clit-  it maybe too sensitive for her and she may become uncomfortable. 

A simple exercise is to use your thumb and index finger to slowly roll the clitoris forwards and then backwards.  Remember to be gentle and to include variation.  You could keep your thumb still and only move your index finger.

The above is only one method you can use to finger a girl, you can also finger a girl from a face- on approach.  This is the best method to ensure hitting that G-Spot.

TIPS

1.Never enter your whole finger at the same time.

2.Instead, insert your fingers one joint at a time. 

3.Once your partner begins to get excited you can then stimulate her clitoris more directly.

G-What?

A woman's G-Spot is a myth to some men- however hard they try they still never quite find it.  It is actually located on the front wall of the vagina and is an area of acute sensitivity.  It can result in fantastic orgasms. 

The area itself is found at the front of the vaginal wall, one or two inches from the opening.  It feels fairly soft and cushiony.

To stimulate your partners G-Spot follow this step-by-step guide:

±     Position yourself in the face to face position, ready for front entry.

±     Use you palm to play with her clitoris, when enough lubrication is present.

±     Insert one or two fingers, slowly penetrating her vagina.

±     Then turn your palm the other way up.

±     Then use your finger pads to stimulate her

Remember that no one knows how to stimulate you better than yourself.  So let her guide you into what she likes and what she doesn't.  If she wants  you to use a dildo or change your movements take it in your stride- you'll soon work out what really drives her wild….